So I think we might have a better idea of what we want to do. I think we might go with the Royals. But I feel like we haven’t hit a very good compromise. I don’t feel like we both really like it. JustAnUglyMonkey wants to do something nontraditional, and I think that would be fun too. I don’t think boys understand how much a wedding costs, what they think would be cheep isn’t, anything that is out of the norm you are going to pay for, norm you are going to pay for. $$$ ding ding ding. Heck I’m not that far into it and I’m debating getting into a dress and wandering over to the courthouse. I want something pretty, I feel like if we went to Vegas it would be slightly tacky and then we would come home and have a keggar. Where’s my pretty? I don’t want to have a wedding and feel like I’m still waiting for my wedding. I know everything isn’t going to be exactly the way either one of us wants. I just wish something perfect would hop out of the sky and a light bulb would come on and both of us would be like DING! That’s it! And everything will fall into place, and we both could be excited about it. Doesn’t feel like that yet, I’m not above waiting till it does. But it does make planning a downer, I like to plan, I like to see things fall into place. I like to know where I’m going, for the most part. I wish there was a way to make everyone happy. But there’s not. I have a huge family and I would like to invite everyone I feel like everyone would expect an invite, but I don’t know if that is going to work out now. And if I don’t invite everyone to the wedding (Magic Show, sorry got another idea) I will want them to come to the reception, but if the reception is like a kegger that will be disappointing, because if they didn’t get to see me get married I would at least like to have something nice for them. GRRRRRRRRR!!!!! And I feel like planning this has been all on my shoulders, because I have to decide how much of my family I want to be there, and I don’t think anyone knows how hard it is for me to decide that. I feel like everyone wants me to choose between my family and my new family. Usually my family does everything together and I would want them all to be there it’s a big event, I’m a very family person, and JustAnUglyMonkey has a small family and although his mom, dad, sister and grandparents we see quite often he doesn’t see his aunts, uncles and cousins like I do. They get together on well…Christmas. I see my whole family on days like it’s a birthday, because it’s Tuesday, Grandma made tamales and every Holiday. Granted I see my Poppi’s side of the family more than the Blonde’s but I love them very much too, they are just farther away, and my Grandpa is already gone on that side of the family and I still have my grandma and I want her to see me get married. So yeah, anyone have any amazing ideas for a crazy unique wedding that could hold a lot of people and wouldn’t cost a bunch?!?!?!??!? I’m open for Ideas. Really. AND what if I’m planning for all of these people and no one comes? I have about 70-80 immediate family and I’m pretty sure the majority of them will come, but what if that comes out to be like 30? And that’s doesn’t count our friends. I never understood why people got all worked up about weddings, and now I do, it’s hard to squish all family and likes of each person into an event. I’m looking forward to the blog that says, “ahhh it’s all over it’s was so much fun! And beautiful and crazy! But now I’m happily married and now we can start looking forward to the next few years of people asking us when we are going to have kids.” I’m closing my eyes and trying to see it. HEY! We have one thing in common we want to have a dance and dollar dance. I’m excited about that, and I’m really looking forward to that part because that’s the really fun part.
“Let’s do the fork in the garbage disposal! Let’s do the fork in the garbage disposal! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding! Ding!” – YES Dance.
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